Be social

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It is always the lonely guy who takes the blame. A very nasty trend has developed in the UK by which the media descend upon socially isolated men on the periphery of murder cases. The connection can be quite slight, such as working in the same office or living within a mile of the victim. The media will then build a case against this innocent man by questioning neighbours about his habits. Does he live alone? Keep strange hours? Is he quiet or shy? Does he have a girlfriend? If not- why? Can his previous girlfriend be found and persuaded to say something bad about him? All of this may be done without ever saying he is the killer and therefore not breaking any law.
Of course, most of us will never be caught up in a murder enquiry- but the same vindictive lack of logic applies to almost every area of life. The isolated introvert is far more likely to be accused of sexual harassment than the office romeo despite the fact that the shy guy cannot even talk to women let alone harass them. This happens because emotions are contagious. The shy man always feels awkward and tense and as a result women feel tension and fear around him. He is utterly innocent of all wrongdoing but creeps women out simply by being in the same room.
The only defense is to develop as a human being. The best defense is a circle of female friends who act as proof of your non creepiness.A gazelle will not approach a watering hole where there are no other herbivores drinking. This is because the gazelle assumes that a predator must be lurking nearby even if they cannot be seen. It is much the same with women. A man who has no women near him is assumed to be dangerous while a popular man is assumed to be safe- or why would other women feel safe to graze near him?
In short.. the less fearful you are, the safer you will be.
I hope this helps.

Rabbits!

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According to English tradition a person will have good luck if the first word out of their mouth in a new month is 'rabbits'.
This is the first time I have ever remembered to do so!
Rabbits, rabbits, rabbits!

My weekend of bad Game

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This weekend was supposed to be the relaunch of my career as a pick up artist. What a washout it turned out to be.
I started out with high expectations. I had learned of a free boot-camp that was run by a guy called Grant who wanted the validation of being a pickup guru and was prepared to share his expertise in order to receive it. I therefore cleared my weekend of all competing events and made it down to central London full of expectations- only to find that the other participants had decided that football and sunshine were better options so the event was canceled. It was rather ironic to find that pick up artists flake on me as so much game is dedicated to preventing women from doing the same. The original plan was to spend a few hours in the West End doing street approaches. Of course my bottle went the moment I got there because I had already been defeated by the cancellation of the boot-camp. I embarrassed myself a few times and then returned home again.
The next day I decided to go to speakers corner and rant and rave for a few hours. I would incorporate game into my public speaking and turn heckling into banter. I would treat all disagreement as a shit test and then see the result.
Actually it went quite well except that I completely forgot to do any gaming. I adopted a quieter and more conversational style of speaking than before and encountered little resistance. Most people have woken up to men's issues and are OK with it provided you do not seem anti woman. This perception brings out the white knights and makes serious discussion impossible.
I also spent far too much time debating religion (a futile task even if it draws an audience) and this ended with a Muslim promising to kill a Christian I was debating with. Most religious debates end in this way.
I am not too depressed about the weekend. The real point of Game is that it will force me out of my comfort zone and make me more of a man. Men should be able to confront embarrassment and push forward. There is never any guarantee of victory in any battle. I have at least been able to maintain an extrovert and charismatic persona while at Speakers Corner and maintained control of my own meeting.

Furgality and survivalism

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Think of any survival event, war, famine, ecological disaster, socialism- anything. What do they all have in common?
They all require that we live on less than we do now. Once we realise this we can see that saving sixty percent of our income is actually survivalist training. It makes us self reliant and resourceful and teaches us that it is possible to be happy without prestige purchases.
Knowing how to live on less is more valuable than a bunker full of James Bond gadgets.

The 100, 500 and 2500 survival kits

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�100 Survival Kit.
�100 will prep against the most likely cause of death in the home- fire. Buy a smoke detector and a fire extinguisher as well as a blanket for the kitchen.. When you come to replace your furniture, pay a little extra and make sure it does not produce toxic fumes in a blaze. Get a carbon monoxide tester too if you have gas in the home.
�500 Survival Kit.
This contains the previous kit plus about sixty Kilner jars. This may seem a great deal but they have multiple uses.
Firstly, they may be used for food storage. Use them for all of your survival rations (rice. flour and so on) but they also keep breakfast cereal fresh. Kilner jars are also useful for household organization. Sort oddments into categories until they can be processed properly.
Keep one jar for water. This is to allow you to make a cup of tea even when the mains have burst. The remainder of the budget should go on food. You now have six months rations!
�2500 Survival kit.
Now we are getting serious! Include the previous kit and also buy a 'bug out bag' containing a tent, a little food and other personal items in case you need to leave your home quickly. You should own some physical gold (sovereigns have some minor tax advantages in the UK) and should start making contact with other preppers. An outdoors survival course would also fall within this budget and you should have some safe refuge in mind.

Alpha and the gift of sanity

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I believe that one reason women prefer Alpha men is that it brings out the best in them.
Show me a woman who is acting crazy and I will show you a woman surrounded by Beta men. The symptoms are very specific.
1) Chronically unhappy without a specific cause. Refuses all efforts to make her happy.
2) Demands that men around her are psychic and know why she is unhappy when she does not even know this herself.
3) Makes impossible and contradictory demands. In other words she will claim to want one thing while also claiming to want the exact opposite. This means that the Beta will be wrong whatever he does.
4) Believes her feeling to be more important than facts.
5) Tortures men around her by acting as if they have done her wrong but refusing to explain what his alleged crime is.
6) Acts as if men in her life 'cause' her bad feelings, low self esteem ext and should take full responsibility for her while taking no responsibility for her own actions.
This is a pretty nasty bunch of behaviours and until recently I thought they were all that was available from the fair sex. This was because until recently I was chronically Beta.
How Beta men encourage mental ill health in women.
The Beta guy is really sensitive and a great listener and thinks this is a virtue. Unfortunately it has the effect of destabilising any woman he is involved with. This is because women approach men when they are seeking an anchor in their lives. They swing back and forth like a metronome and need a rock to cling to in order to achieve balance. Unfortunately the Beta guy is so sensitive to the woman's mood that he begins to swing back and forth like a metronome himself and so she is cut adrift from all steadying influences. This results in wilder and wilder swings and increasingly destructive behaviour. It is like a shit test that can never be passed and that consumes everything it touches. The Beta guy literally drives her insane.
I have become more Alpha over the past year or so. It is difficult to see the changes in myself but very easy to see them in the women I relate to. They have become more sane and more pleasant. This is so striking that I do a quick 'Alpha check' upon myself whenever I have a bad encounter with a woman. I have always found that it was my own lack of Alpha that day that caused the trouble.
If western men ever get their Mojo back we shall know it because the mental health of women will improve. A colossal self help industry has grown up catering to the unhappiness of women without helping it a great deal. Most of these books, seminars and therapies will simply disappear because they will no longer be needed.
Some men will object to this post because they think it lets women off the hook over their own behaviours and blames Beta men. I understand this. Beta men get blamed for everything by women. I know this because I used to be one. Sometimes I still am.
There is a difference between BLAME and RESPONSIBILITY.
Are Beta men to be blamed for female behaviour towards them? No.
Are Beta men responsible for their own salvation? Hell yes! If we do not take responsibility then who will?

Beyond Game

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Game, in its short history has come a long way. There have always been men who wish to be good with women but 'Game' as such started with Ross Jefferies. He taught men that they should run 'pattens' on women and hypnotise them to bed. This is not quite as bad as it sounds- all NLP claims to be able to do is to change emotional responses. It cannot make one do anything against ones will.
Next came Mystery with his bag of social tricks. Mystery taught men to hold their head high in the company of other men and talked of the need for a man to have an attractive life. Nevertheless the Mystery Method is focused entirely upon short term manipulation. There is no recognition that self improvement is worthwhile for its own sake.
Next came RSD which ditches lines and tricks. RSD maintains it is more honest than the Mystery Method but it simply reverses the manipulation. RSD does not seek to directly manipulate the woman but manipulates the man into being a friendly extrovert. It is more authentic on one level because his conversation is real but runs the risk that the PUA may lose his true self.
Finally we have the natural game guys. This turns full circle and simply advises the man be his best self. Natural Game rejects all forms of inauthentic behaviour. This runs the risk of abolishing the entire subject.
More and more men are going beyond game and becoming the men women crave FOR REAL. Getting women is not even the focus any more- it is the natural result of personal growth.

Kipling - If

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IF you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,'
Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!

Ryanair DHV routeen

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Ryanair is the famously c**p but ultra cheap airline. The most I have ever paid for a ticket with them is just �5- and this includes tax!
How it works.
You are with a woman and are getting on well. You simply say (very casually)
'Hey, I am going to Rome (or wherever) next week- want to come?'
She may raise some practical objection (such as having a job) but you have established the following-
a) That you are spontaneous, fun and full of adventure.
b) You can keep it cool and not go weird and intense when alone with her (red roses, declaration of love and so on).
c) By mentioning Ryanair you make it clear that you are NOT impressing her with money and that she will pay her own ticket!
You may then move on to travelers stories from this point. The more you talk about fun you had WITHOUT her, the more she will want to be with you.
Remember- the DHV is about fun. It is NOT about telling her you are rich.
NB: The picture is a genuine screenshot of the company website. They advise customers to travel naked to speed up boarding times.

90210 Madness

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Hey, you guys! I promise to get back to all of your comments from my previous post as soon as possible. What a marvelous surprise, getting so many wonderful amounts of feedback from all of you. Can't wait to reply back! I was out of town for most of the weekend, visiting with family, but I'm back now. Ohhh and I scored two of the coolest pairs of boots I could ever hope to find (can't wait to showcase them in the blog, soon!)

In the meantime, I hope you like the 90210 muse board I made for you. My latest obsession. I actually just started watching it, via iTunes last week and became instantly hooked. I've only gotten up to episode 4; "The Bubble," but nevertheless, liking it more and more with every episode. I can't decide if I like it even more than Gossip girl? My favorite characters are Naomi Clark (deliciously evil) and Ethan Ward (just plain delicious!) I can't forget to mention Jessica Stroup, "Silver" who has as much an affinity for knee socks as I do and I wish I had her steel blue eyes.

43 DHVs

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The DHV (demonstration of higher value) is a game concept which basically means bragging without bragging. The PUA sprinkles his conversation with stories that make him look good. This high value is inferred and not openly stated.
When this goes wrong it goes VERY wrong and makes one seem a braggart. This was one reason natural game evolved. This teaches men to have awesome lives for real. This is better but why not combine the two? Why not DHV the entire world- truthfully? Why not DHV your employer, your friends and yourself?
This is how I am using the 43 Things and 43 Places social network. Each of my entries are actually things I offer the world but appear to be a list of resolutions. In this way I can reach out to the world and find allies in all of my projects.
There is also a psychological aspect to all of this. Once I publicly announce that I am going to do this or that thing I have to do it or admit to you that I have not. This is very powerful.
Of course.. once you admit that a DHV is a DHV it stops working. I am simply pointing out to you that your social networking is actually an extension of your CV. Our previous posts can come back to bite us if we forget this.

Navy Dress + Wang Wedges

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MOTEL ROCKS Body Con Dress
POSHLOCKET Wrap Bracelet
DANIELLE NICOLE Bag
COVERGIRL Lipstick in Fairy Tale
ALEXANDER WANG Wedges
There's something so sexy yet also elegant about wearing a body con dress. The formfitting fabric creating a figure flattering silhouette. For the photos I wore it alone. In reality, I'd probably throw a jacket or cardigan over it. Only because I can be kind of shy and demure at times.. ;) And anyway, I had to shoot this look without a cover-up. Why you ask? Well, I really wanted to show the beautiful lace detailing adorning the neckline of the dress. I went with the nude Alexander Wang sandals and mixed in (a very Mad Men approved) navy structured bag.
What do you think of today's look of the day?
BTW- totally random, but I must confess.. I am kind of GLEE Obsessed. (Thank you, Netflix!) ;)
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Obsessed

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Now I am fretting over the idea that I may need to get a new shade of eyeshadow, not to mention blush, (thank you Paris Hilton!) I know that sounds weird, almost laughable, right? Well it's true. I just adore her eyeshadow in the photo below. It's shimmery, decadent and just plain gorgeous! I am in love and on a mission to find that exact shade and its maker.... I have been saving some $ for new makeup and colors anyway so.. I am thinking of going Dior this route... if not Chanel.... only time will tell. If anyone can "ID" it in the meantime, I may wait this one out....... I just really, really, really want it! Le *sigh*..

Audrey Hepburn Movies

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Let's spend Saturday watching old Audrey Hepburn movies. What do you say? :)
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Strength

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Thank you. I am much better.
Getting ill is very much like getting in debt. If your basic health is good you feel that you may make more withdrawals than deposits- and then suddenly it all catches up with you.
Men are more willing to become ill than women- just as we are more willing to die than women. I wonder why this is? Men are notorious for not seeing a doctor until they are at deaths door. We also eat more junk than women and carry more weight. The same applies to more sudden causes of death- such as lead bullets. Men often volunteer for military service knowing the risks in advance. Women rarely step into the line of fire deliberately. I know that women can join the army now but they are kept well to the rear and out of harms way. If they ever face danger it is likely to be a career ending mistake on the part of their male commander.
This male willingness to die seems to exist in all cultures. Young men engage in tests of courage while older men die for family honor. It is all very odd.
The only thing we can do is consciously decide not to follow them. Eat as well as you can afford. Get regular sleep and do not engage in needless conflict.

The essence of the Cloud

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The essence of cloud living is that one owns everything while owning nothing. In this way we may be surrounded by beauty and comfort while never being responsible for its upkeep. This may be done as long as one does not desire exclusive ownership.
Cloud living is the only way to live in an expensive city on a small wage. The backdrop to my life is like that of a movie set and yet my disposable income is almost nothing.
Ownership is always more expensive than we think it is. A car requires more than petrol to keep it running. There are a hundred expensies from tires to depreciation. Furthermore, cars and houses require attention. They never leave us alone and it is nearly always cheaper to rent.
Poverty is power. I will never be sued by a geedy lawyer because I own nothing a lawyer would wish to steal. This is also why I tell woman that I am poor.
By means of Game we may avoid 'owning' women through marrage. This offers the same advantages that other forms of non ownership offer. We do not need to support these women financially and we avoid legal entanglements with them.
I make it my rule to dispose of two items for every one that I buy. This is surprisngly difficult but nobody said freedom would be easy. The biggest enemies we face live within us.
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If gold is so great.. why are we not using it?

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Inflation is officially running at 5.22% in the UK. If you are on a low income it is running even faster because food and energy are increasing at about 18%.
The only thing increasing faster is gold- so why are we not using it as a currency? If we were we would find life gets cheaper every year rather than more expensive. This is not a political decision. We can do this amongst ourselves if we choose without asking anyone.
How would this work? A group of friends or business associates would simply agree to use gold coins in place of cash. They would physically exchange the coins and this would remove all worries about credit or bouncing cheques. Obtaining a credit reference would be as easy as asking to see the contents of a persons pockets.
So why is this not happening? I think it is a case of bad money driving out good. Gold bugs simply love their gold too much to spend it and everyone else cannot understand it. Maybe this will change one day.

Twitter from space

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This is a map of what the world is thinking. The most brightly lit areas are the most prosperous and democratic. The blueish areas are chiefly text while the yellow areas are chiefly pictures. These are the areas most open to new ideas and it is interesting to note that each of these areas has developed its own MGTOW and Game philosophies. India is coming on line right now but for some reason Japan is not. My own view is that Japanese culture is based upon a sort of supercharged betadom. Japanese men have always been willing to sacrifice themselves for the Emperor and for women. Right now they are working themselves quite literally to death or killing themselves when they lose their job. If you live in London you will know that Japanese men under 70 never go on holiday. The only young tourists you see here are women because the men never take time off work. We need to talk to these guys.

Afternoon Brunch ( Party! )

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tank: Target (Mom's).
skirt: thrifted, vintage.
flats: vintage, eBay.
bag: handmade.

Welcome to Dave's Dolls

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The Conservatives now have the sexiest MP's. Here is the proof- based upon public votes on the Sexy MP site. Sexy MP

Ditch the insurance

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Many of us pay into insurance schemes because this is what sensible people do. Sensible sucks. Sensible is Beta. Sensible is death to the soul.
Self insuring is the act of having sufficient funds to deal with life. You have access to this money and so there is no longer any need to pay someone else a premium for access to theirs.
The great thing about self insuring is that it is stress relieving. Normal insurance simply exchanges one set of problems for another. First you buy insurance so that you do not need to worry about something going wrong. Then (when something does go wrong) you worry about the small print of the insurance contract. This is too much like work for me. I would rather just pay for things as they come up.
The only downside to self insurance is that quite a lot of cash is needed to set it up. An insurance company does not have assets to realise every possible claim that may arise- far from it. This means that it is possible to be covered for many thousands of pounds of risk for just a penny or two a day. Only a tiny proportion of their policies will result in claims on any particular year and so companies write many more policies than they can ever pay. This was all very well until the credit crunch came along and shrunk the value of their investments. This caused some companies to become insolvent.
By means of self insurance and a low debt lifestyle it is possible to insulate oneself from the rickety financial structure that threatens to sink us all.
In order to do without insurance one must know what it is.
Insurance is basically rented liquidity. An individual finds that he cannot be without an item (such as a home or a car) and yet he cannot hold sufficient funds to replace it. He therefore rents access to another persons money by paying an insurance premium to an insurance company.
Insurance can be a profitable alternative to holding cash. Prior to the crunch many corporations used it as a means to create debt fueled financial empires. Many of these empires no longer exist because insurance is never (quite) the same thing as cash.
So why are companies and wealthy individuals so adverse to cash anyway? The most liquid investments have the lowest returns and they may can boost their returns by holding less of it- until they go broke. It all worked quite well for 'sophisticated' investors for quite a long time.
Most household insurance is bought out of habit. This is a hugely dangerous thing to do with money.
You may find the following cost/benefit analysis useful even though the examples are from my own life.
Ditch the Trade Union.
Trade unions are basically an insurance policy against unfair dismissal. Unfortunately there is no one to insure us against unfair treatment by the union itself. If we are unfairly dismissed it will probably be because we are too white or too male for some government quota or other. This sort of discrimination is completely ignored by the unions and objecting to 'positive' discrimination is likely to get one labeled as a reactionary.
A better solution is to be six months in advance with the mortgage. This will not stop the union from stitching you up but it will mean that you are not all that worried about it. This is because the government will help with your mortgage once you have been unemployed for six months. It is the first six months that kill you.
Ditch the contents insurance.
Household contents insurance always sounds a good idea. The trouble is that you must insure everything or nothing. Who has ever heard of carpets being stolen?
In reality you need only a few hundred pounds insurance because burglars steal only portable high value items such as laptops. This may be done by paying additional sums into your mortgage account. These mat be painlessly withdrawn either by missing a payment (tell them first) or asking for a refund.
Ditch the credit insurance.
You may have credit insurance without knowing it. If this is so you can cancel it and apply for a refund under UK law.
Credit insurance only really covers the lender and not the borrower- but you pay the premiums not them. It is far better not to take out the loan or to have investments to cover the repayments.

French Connection + Vlog

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Here I am, exploring the new place... I am trying to find my new "spot" to model future looks for the blog....
dress: french connection, strappy heels: franco sarto
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why won't the video stills ever work with flattering us??
anyways, I hope you enjoy this latest vlog installment..

Put your paperwork on the Cloud

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How many bits of paper we own- and how they oppress us!
The first thing I will get rid of are my warranty and sales receipts. When you think about it most of these are quite useless. If an item breaks down is is likely that it will take longer to find a certificate than to fix it. If the item is stolen or lost in a house fire it is likely that the receipts will have been lost as well.
The answer is to ensure that this information is held in multiple locations on the web. Register the item on Immobilise. This not only records the registration and warranty details but passes these on to your insurance company and the police if the items are stolen. Mark your belongings invisibly with an ultra violent pen and mention this on your Immobilise entry. This will secure a conviction if the thief is ever caught.
Secondly, make sure that your purchases are registered with the retailer who sold them to you. This generally occurs automatically if you registered with the website you ordered them from. If you did not do this then you can usually do so retrospectively.
Thirdly, copy all warranty information on to Yahoo Notes or some similar online service. There is little point storing it on your hard disk as computers are often stolen. You may also wish to copy your most vital data on to a memory stick and keep it with your house keys.
Some people like to retain the original documents. This is fine but you no longer have to worry about them because the information is secure.
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Why is Starbucks so Addicting?

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I try my best not to have it everday, but once or twice a week is OK, or so I have reasoned...
starbucks, iced chai tea latte!*

NEW IN Mickey Mouse Ears

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Personalized Mickey Mouse Ears from Disney World, Florida
Ray-Ban Wayfarer Sunglasses
The Happiest Place on Earth.. Disney World! Right? When I used to live in Florida, I would visit this magical land at least once a year, if not twice, or more. I remember always wanting a pair of Mickey Mouse ears with my name on the back. Yet, somehow always seemed to forget to buy them. Well, this Christmas my friend Caroline went down to Florida for a week. Now, I know we were destined to meet and fast become friends! She brought me back this pair of personalized mouse ears. I'm thrilled. Talk about mega mind reading abilities. I wore them over the weekend and felt like a little girl all over again. Who wouldn't want that giddy, Disney Princess feeling inside? Thanks, C!! :)
By the way, stay tuned, because tomorrow I have a VERY SPECIAL Surprise for All of YOU! ;)
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A Letter From Rachel Roy

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RACHEL Rachel Roy Sundress
REBECCA MINKOFF Handbag
Cuff Bracelet thanks to PoshLocket!
Sun Hat Thanks to Romwe!
ALEXANDER WANG Wedge Sandals in Nude
You can only imagine my surprise when I picked up the mail yesterday. I was delighted to find a letter personally written to me... by Rachel Roy. She wanted to thank me on my look in her Cintia dress. I am honored that she both approved and liked my look.
You can see the rest of the outfit post HERE.
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Ponytail Perfect

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The kind of hairstyle that always looks so effortless -yet- also so very polished!
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Sunshine-y Day

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I start my new job- and a very nice job it is too

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Last Saturday I came to the end of my inhuman shift- an entire month of twelve hour shifts- and took a day off. Not only this- It was my first day of deliberately seeking wealthy women. I woke early with the sun streaming through my open window. I knew already it was going to be a wonderful day.
How to dress? I considered briefly dressing up for the day- and then decided to dress down instead. Dress rich and you get a gold digger. Dress poor and get...? Well. Today I would find out.
Colour coordination is very important to women. I would dress as cheaply as possible but I would be colour coordinated. This meant brown Doc Martins (scuffed), black Primark jeans (£6), brown belt- too large for my present size. This dangled down in front of my jeans suggestively. Women pull off a similar trick by 'distressing' their jeans around the groin and buttocks. As a general rule everything women do to attract men works well in reverse. I then finished with a £30 leather jacket. This outfit was designed for one purpose- to filter out every women who did not have money for the two of us.
The secret to meeting the right woman is to go to the right place. I was headed to a meetup group that was popular with single and divorced upmarket women (investment bankers, scientists and the more expensive kinds of lawyers). It is quite surprising how many lonely women exist in these groups. The basic problem is that they are more alpha than any of the men they meet. Many men make the mistake of thinking they have to impress them (this is tedious try hard behaviour) when all that is needed is to let the women be women. Many successful women are willing- even eager- to become temporarily submissive when they feel it is safe to do so.
Once you understand this you will also realise that the most Alpha thing any man can say is that he has a crap job- and then just stand there without apology. This reassures the Alpha female on many levels. First of all she knows you are a MAN. In other words you do not measure your worth in others opinions. Second- you are not interested in competing with her. Many men will get into tedious point scoring debates with such women to prove that he can be right about something. This is something men enjoy but it can come across as insecure bullying to women. Women often say that they feel they have to nurse the insecurities of men. This comes close to fembot shaming language but I am sure that many women genuinely feel this- justified or not. When she feels safe she is set free. She relaxes and becomes kittenish, funny, playful and very easy to love.
I am sure you are interested in the mechanics of this game so I will tell you how it played out on Saturday.
The meetup took the form of a guided walk between three palaces and across three parks. We met in front of Charing Cross Station. The best time to establish oneself as the Alpha in any group is while the group is forming and the best way to do this is to make sure that everyone is having a good time. I talked to each new arrival and introduced them to one another. In particular I introduced the four most attractive women to one another. This stabilised the group and made it more difficult for any other Alpha to take them away from me. I also introduced a lanky beta kind of guy to all of the women to even things up a little. (I am an old man and I can only manage two women in a single sitting). It is common within the community to bully Beta guys in order to eliminate them as a threat. I am too much of an MRA to do this and looking after Betas is actually very Alpha behaviour. In a wolf pack the Alpha eats first- but everyone gets to eat.
The organizer then announced that there would be a quiz and suddenly something very strange happened. A woman in a pinstriped jacket (Pinstripe Girl) pushed her way through the crowd and said 'I want to be in this group because you are very clever'. I took her to be a banker of some kind and and very much my type- so of course she was in. She then insisted that I be team captain and everyone agreed.
I now had five attractive women in my group as well as being undisputed alpha within it. I turned to the rather Beta tall guy and said to him 'This is very good. Five beautiful women. I will have three and you can have the other two.' Everyone laughed including the tall Beta.
This had a number of effects. It was a compliment, of course, but it established my own frame- which is that I would take first pickings and in return for this I would help the other guy get his. This automatically meant that any woman I wanted must be the most attractive in the group.
This may seem cruel to the Beta guy but I am pretty sure he would have remained on the outside of the group hovering around and feeling awkward if I had not invited him in. The basic deal (take anyone I do not want) was a good one- and far more than he normally gets.
Everything is in the frame. In the first few minutes I had established three things.
1) We were going to have a relaxing, fun day. Everyone was going to be included.
2) I was the leader of this group.
3) I would claim the most attractive woman (or women) for myself. If I did not ask for the date- she was not attractive! (You see the double bind here?)
Once the frame has been set, success was almost inevitable.
I spent some time talking to Pinstripe Girl- which was very educational. She was intelligent, well spoken and very friendly but I found it initially hard to desire her even though she was physically attractive. I realise this was because she was something of a female 'nice guy'. In other words she was a little too keen to agree with my own opinions (of which I have many). I now understand how the 'nice guy' syndrome works and why women call these decent men boring.
The fact is that Pinstripe Girl was NOT boring (and neither are most Nice Guys). She began to give me serious I.O.I which I teasingly evaded and then broke off to talk to other women.
Next came GoldTooth Catgirl. G.T.C was a fascinating oddball- and I mean this kindly because I am an oddball myself. She was wearing a fake leopard coat with extravagant eyeliner and a gold tooth. She looked a little like a comic book character. We talked a little about the constitution but I was applying ruthless income criteria so I zeroed in on History Girl, a very attractive black woman. She made a joke about New Age people and so I told her about the New Age hippy habits of Adolph Hitler. This ended with me stroking her earlobe and asking her to visualise her clitoris (Hitler believed that both things were significant). History Girl LOVED this but I saw her later on looking a little worried. Women tend to interpret things too much- she probably thinks was a NAZI checking her out for Jewish blood.
It was a little bit crass of me to be honest.
What was the outcome? I had to disappear early because I was so poor I could not even buy a pint of beer down the pub but I later received texts from Pinstripe Girl and another woman I barely talked to. Both want to meet up later. Unfortunately I cannot do so until I am paid on the 17th so I will politely put them off until then.
All in all it was a good day. I was so relaxed from the sun, the fresh air and the walking that I fell asleep on the train home.
The main surprise was how easy it all was.

NEW IN BALENCIAGA Arena Giant City + OUTFIT

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BALENCIAGA Arena Giant City w/ Rose Gold Hardware
MOTEL Two Tone Knit Sweater (also in a Sweater Dress here)
J BRAND Legging Glitter Jeans
Isn't this Balenciaga bag great? It was a gift and actually arrived today. I nearly screamed! I can't wait to tell you the exciting news that comes with it ...soon! For now, I've decided to test-drive it with my first outfit. This is the idea: a two-tone knit (very Nicole Richie), black skinny jeans with a glittering sheen and my studded slippers (not shown here.)
Do you like this outfit idea? More "live-action" photos to come..
Have a great Wednesday! x X
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