The curse of game is that it requires self transformation. The blessing of game is that it requires the same thing.
A woman can improve her attractiveness quite easily by changing her hair, wearing different makeup or a push-up bra.This means that the mating game is easy for her while she is young but very unforgiving once she begins to age.
This is actually quite a brutal situation. The woman feels her loss of attractiveness with each passing year. This knowledge can help us to be compassionate when a woman become clingy or panicky about commitment.
A man cannot resort to the same quick fixes. Working out will help him a little- but in the absence of game it will do nothing.
A man must transform himself on a deeper level. Sure.. this is hard work, but the benefits are so much greater than a new haircut.