Each of us has our own history that gives us our unique abilities. My own childhood was rather troubled but it has given me abilities few people have. I can recognise a secret drinker instantly- even over the telephone.
Like many children of alcoholics I am something of a rescuer. I can recognize a damsel in distress before she even knows she is one!. This photo was published before Britney's mental problems. It broke my heart as I saw her entire future there.
Be careful who you rescue. Rescue yourself first.