A while ago a friend of mine mentioned that he no longer needed to lie.
In its own way this was a profound observation. Many people believe (falsely) that they have to lie but almost everyone wants to tell the truth. I realise that I have not told a lie for years.
The most common form of lie is to hide ones own values because we fear other people will judge us. This is why people mouth PC platitudes to one another. I have discovered it is possible to be completely honest about my views- provided I allow the other person to be honest with me.
Feminists are often quite interested to meet an anti feminist man and sometimes this even sparks attraction as it acts as a 'neg' (to use pick up jargon).