Showing posts with label Men. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Men. Show all posts

Why men forget

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Political leaders are generally men, business leaders are generally men and yet everywhere the voice of men is ignored. Why?
Is it that political leaders are some special breed? Or is it that somehow they forget what it is to be normal?
I believe that they forget. I know this because some days I am Alpha and some days Beta. When I am Alpha I cannot remember being any other way. This is not surprising. A large part of what makes an Alpha is the belief that women will treat him well. Most men can only do this by forgetting their own Beta pasts for how can we do this with our memory intact?
This is a problem for all men because political and business leaders are Alpha and have to forget the problems of Betas in order to be so. Alpha is the ultimate drug and the addict will do anything to remain so. If he remembers his Beta self at all it will be with a shudder of disgust and horror. This is why male politicians and male judges continue to shaft other men. They live in horror of Beta and dread returning to this state more than death itself.
From time to time we see a MGTOW blog disappear because it has been deleted by its owner. This happens because the writer has achieved Alpha status and cannot believe or understand what he has written. He reads about his own life in his own blog and cannot identify with it and so he deletes the blog as if it were written by a stranger.

Men without skin

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I am grateful that my MGTOW readers have stuck with me even though I write about so many other things these days. Furthermore many of them link to me. A couple of examples can be found here http://men-factor.blogspot.com/ and here http://forahouseboy.blogspot.com/ MGTOW blogs tend to go through a life cycle rather like the life cycle of an insect. These blogs are at their newest and angryiest. The irony is that MGTOW guys are generally good men who love women so much that they cannot set limits. It is rather like living without skin. He gives and gives and gives but receives nothing in return. In order to survive he must live alone because the alternative is too painful. Sometimes these blogs will suddenly disappear only to reappear later on in another form. This is generally caused by the man falling in and out of love. Despite all of the harshness many MGTOW types are romantics and fall in love easily. Men such as this are used to being insulted by women (and do not deserve it) and so I would like to make it clear that when I say 'without skin' I do not mean 'without balls'. I mean that MGTOW men are probably a little more genuine and a little more honest with women than is good for them. They are too decent for this world basically.
Sometimes MGTOW blogs will disappear for good. This happens when the writer has achieved a degree of emotional independence and possibly some game. He looks back on his MGTOW days and can hardly understand his own writings without experiencing pain and so he deletes the whole thing. I was tempted to do this a year or too back but overcame it. I link to these 'raw' blogs because they can say things and access emotions that I can no longer connect with. It is important to remember that the days of MGTOW anger are part of the healing process. The fact that we pass through them and find personal power the other side does not mean that this stage is invalid.
The MGTOW movement is a rejection of Niceguy status on the Alpha Scale. Generally the MGTOW graduate will move rapidly upwards and may become an Alpha in a year or two. This is not done to get laid but to live more fully.